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		<title>A Higher Sense of Purpose</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 07:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jon Griffith</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com">Real Scottsdale Living</a> isn&#8217;t just a site about real estate in Scottsdale.  It&#8217;s not only a place where you can search for properties, learn about the Short Sale process, or research what the community has to offer.  It&#8217;s also a site about getting REAL in Scottsdale.  The name Real Scottsdale Living was born [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com">Real Scottsdale Living</a> isn&#8217;t just a site about real estate in Scottsdale.  It&#8217;s not <em>only</em> a place where you can search for properties, learn about the Short Sale process, or research what the community has to offer.  It&#8217;s also a site about getting REAL in Scottsdale.  The name Real Scottsdale Living was born after seeing Steve Belt&#8217;s success with <a href="http://www.realphoenixliving.com">Real Phoenix Living</a>.  Steve Belt, formerly a real estate agent and property manager with Realty Executives, now owns and operates a successful coffee shop at 78th Street and Thomas called <a target="_blank" href="http://www.echocoffee.com">Echo Coffee.</a></p>
<h3>Me Too, Me Too</h3>
<p>At the time I discovered Steve&#8217;s real estate blog, being part of a blogging community was more important to me than working on real estate, which essentially is working on relationships.  True, blogs provide a way to develop relationships, but when I first began this venture, it was all about being noticed as a blogger.</p>
<h3>We Can&#8217;t Focus on That</h3>
<p>Boy was I on the wrong track, and thankfully, I believe the purpose of this website is evolving into something that means more than I ever thought it would.  What that is, I can&#8217;t exactly place yet, but I know that I have a higher sense of purpose in mind, and I think it may have something to do with the hidden meaning in the name of this site.</p>
<h3>What It Boils Down To</h3>
<p>True, the name is good for search engines, and it&#8217;s good for indexing based on common real estate phrases, but I think I got lucky with the name, because the higher purpose of this site is to help people realize (REALize) their financial dreams through the process of personal refinement.  I&#8217;m on a mission to help people who are ready to get REAL about life in Scottsdale, their life in Scottsdale.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a pretty straight forward guy.  I say what I think when I think it as long as I can debunk the myths that I tell myself, and I&#8217;m okay if you don&#8217;t like it.  There are plenty of people who do, and I work with them to help them achieve their real estate results.</p>
<h3>What Prompted This Post</h3>
<p>I came across the following statement that is a clear myth we all buy into from time to time.  &#8220;<em>I can&#8217;t do it.&#8221; </em>I nothing more to say to someone who says that &#8220;<em>I can&#8217;t do it.&#8221;</em> I find myself believing more and more that I <em>can</em> do it as I pick myself up over and over again to continue through something even after I fail at it.  &#8220;<em>Until you try, you can&#8217;t possibly know what you can or can&#8217;t do.&#8221;</em> &#8211; Gary Keller, Keller Williams Real Estate.</p>
<p>Coming from a mastermind of the real estate world, a statement like this sinks in and does its work in my heart and in my mind.  But what about in others&#8217; hearts and minds?</p>
<h3>The Daily Risk</h3>
<p>I have found that it is so much easier to be pulled down by people who live inside of &#8220;<em>I can&#8217;t do it&#8221; </em>than it is to pull myself up and out.  If you surround yourself with people who believe they will never succeed, or that they have reached their limit, it&#8217;s likely that you&#8217;ll follow along with them because you&#8217;ll be afraid of going against the grain, because going against the grain means discovering something new, which means change will happen.  When change happens, old relationships pass, and new ones begin.  So the daily risk of surrounding yourself with people who don&#8217;t believe they can do it, is a very high risk activity, and the risk is never creating new relationships that can help you achieve your goals.</p>
<h2  class="related_post_title">Similar Topics</h2><ul class="related_post"><li>September 24, 2008 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2008/09/24/to-the-owner-its-more-about-the-home/" title="To The Owner, It&#8217;s More About the Home">To The Owner, It&#8217;s More About the Home</a></li><li>February 1, 2012 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2012/02/01/who-pays-the-commission-on-a-short-sale/" title="Who Pays the Commission on a Short Sale">Who Pays the Commission on a Short Sale</a></li><li>September 23, 2009 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2009/09/23/the-debate-continues-one-users-opinion-on-renting-vs-buying/" title="The Debate Continues: One User&#8217;s Opinion on Renting vs. Buying">The Debate Continues: One User&#8217;s Opinion on Renting vs. Buying</a></li><li>July 3, 2009 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/short-sale-frequenty-asked-questions/" title="Short Sale Frequenty Asked Questions">Short Sale Frequenty Asked Questions</a></li><li>June 25, 2009 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2009/06/25/get-off-the-couch-and-look-out-belay/" title="Get Off The Couch and Look Out Belay">Get Off The Couch and Look Out Belay</a></li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Stop Doing What You Don&#8217;t Love to Do</title>
		<link>http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2009/10/28/stop-doing-what-you-dont-love-to-d/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 22:16:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jon Griffith</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/wp-content/uploads/IMG_0483.JPG"></a>Gary Vaynerchuk.</p> <p>Never heard of him?  It&#8217;s possible that you have, since the demographics of the readership of blogs like this one typically consist of like-minded individuals who are constantly looking towards the future, finding new ways to communicate and connect.  Most of the people I have met who are deep into the online [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/wp-content/uploads/IMG_0483.JPG"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-906" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" title="IMG_0483" src="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/wp-content/uploads/IMG_0483-225x300.jpg" alt="IMG_0483" width="225" height="300" /></a>Gary Vaynerchuk.</p>
<p>Never heard of him?  It&#8217;s possible that you have, since the demographics of the readership of blogs like this one typically consist of like-minded individuals who are constantly looking towards the future, finding new ways to communicate and connect.  Most of the people I have met who are deep into the online world of entrepreneurialism know who Gary Vaynerchuk is.  But, if you don&#8217;t know who he is, read on.</p>
<p>I had the pleasure of attending a recent event which was put on by Keller Williams.  I was offered free registration by <a target="_blank" href="http://www.twitter.com/freedomweaver" target="_blank">@FreedomWeaver</a> and I took him up on it.  Introduced to <a target="_blank" href="http://www.garyvaynerchuk.com" target="_blank">Gary</a> via one of his Keynote Speeches, I was instantly captivated by his charisma and direct, no holds barred, in your face approach to telling the world how business is changing, and who is going to succeed, and fail.</p>
<p>Gary does what he wants to do, and that started, as he explains, as a young entrepreneur in Edison, NJ where he ran his very own lemonade stand franchise.  Yes, I said franchise.  While his minions manned the stands, Gary watched the eyes of the potential consumer, and adjusted, finding the best place to market his product, which wasn&#8217;t a unique product.  What was unique was his fearless approach to doing business how he wanted, when he wanted.  He later applied his knowledge to the sales of trading cards which earned him $1000/week before he was 15 years old.  That&#8217;s $52,000/year people.  He goes on to talk about his entrapment in his father&#8217;s business at $2/hr for hours every day, to his discovery that he could apply his entrepreneurial skills to the business, making it extremely successful in a very short period of time.</p>
<p><a target="_blank" rel="attachment wp-att-907" href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/index.php/2009/10/28/stop-doing-what-you-dont-love-to-d/crushit/"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-907" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" title="Crush It!" src="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/wp-content/uploads/crushit.jpg" alt="Crush It!" width="106" height="160" /></a>After launching <a href="http://www.winelibrary.com" target="_blank">WineLibrary.com</a>, and tv.WineLibrary.com, he has turned the world of wine upside-down, bringing the once snooty knowledge of fine wining to the average Joe.  Now, after pursuing his passion for wine without taking a paycheck for 18 months, &#8220;working his face off&#8221; as he says, he&#8217;s turned that passion into a thriving, very profitable business.  Now, with a New York Times best seller, he&#8217;s opening up his &#8220;secrets&#8221; to a world of people who don&#8217;t spend time reading online.</p>
<p>The point?  Gary realized that &#8220;<strong>there&#8217;s no reason you should be doing shit you don&#8217;t like doing</strong>,&#8221; and he started doing what he loves.</p>
<p>So if you&#8217;re still doing what you don&#8217;t love to pay the bills, take the extra time you have, no matter how inconvenienced you&#8217;ll be, or how uncomfortable it may seem (in other words, quit whining, it&#8217;s hard work) and start doing more of what you love.  Soon, you&#8217;ll find that what you love will pay you more than that job you hate, and you&#8217;ll wonder why you ever doubted yourself in the first place.</p>
<p>You can watch <a target="_blank" href="http://garyvaynerchuk.com/post/226157962/the-thank-you-economy-the-world-of-content-is" target="_blank">Gary&#8217;s latest Vlog post</a> on his personal blog, or catch an episode of his Wine show at <a target="_blank" href="http://tv.winelibrary.com" target="_blank">WineLibrary.com</a>.</p>
<h2  class="related_post_title">Other articles of interest:</h2><ul class="related_post"><li>December 5, 2008 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2008/12/05/real-estates-biggest-loser/" title="Real Estate&#8217;s Biggest Loser">Real Estate&#8217;s Biggest Loser</a></li><li>October 14, 2011 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2011/10/14/the-short-sale-counter-offer/" title="The Short Sale Counter Offer">The Short Sale Counter Offer</a></li><li>October 3, 2008 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2008/10/03/dont-be-fooled-by-the-weather/" title="Don&#8217;t be Fooled by The Weather">Don&#8217;t be Fooled by The Weather</a></li><li>April 29, 2011 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2011/04/29/is-that-investment-profitable/" title="Is That Investment Profitable?">Is That Investment Profitable?</a></li><li>February 1, 2012 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2012/02/01/who-pays-the-commission-on-a-short-sale/" title="Who Pays the Commission on a Short Sale">Who Pays the Commission on a Short Sale</a></li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Dear FHA, Can You Please Sign Off?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 23:34:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jon Griffith</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Dear, David H. Stevens, Margaret Burns, and Bonnie McCloskey,</p> <p>Nothing is more infuriating than a policy within a company that cannot be explained other than &#8220;that&#8217;s the way we&#8217;ve always done it.&#8221;</p> <p>Digital signatures save everyone time.  A VERY LARGE AMOUNT OF TIME.  But in a world where a vast majority of the buyers are [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear, David H. Stevens, Margaret Burns, and Bonnie McCloskey,</p>
<p>Nothing is more infuriating than a policy within a company that cannot be explained other than &#8220;that&#8217;s the way we&#8217;ve always done it.&#8221;</p>
<p>Digital signatures save everyone time.  A VERY LARGE AMOUNT OF TIME.  But in a world where a vast majority of the buyers are going FHA, with a policy that doesn&#8217;t allow digital signatures, many lenders are slowing us all down by requiring pen to paper.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s why pen to paper is a stupid idea.  PHOTOSHOP.  I can extract your signature and drop it into any document I want and pass it off as genuine and it instantly becomes legitimate.  Not only <strong>can </strong>I do this, but I <strong>have </strong>done this, but only after receiving written permission to do so from my client.  No funny business here.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s been my only solution to FHA&#8217;s antiquated practice of requiring pen to paper.</p>
<p>Digital signatures have been part of the business world since 2000 and they&#8217;re perfectly legal.  There&#8217;s no reason we should be chasing people down, inconveniencing them, to acquire handwritten, less-than-secure forms of authentication.  It&#8217;s just ludicrous.</p>
<p>So, FHA, please stop this horribly annoying practice and bring yourselves up to speed.  We&#8217;re tired of the whole world moving faster than you, and you&#8217;re just getting further and further behind.  Drop the dead weight.  Loose the anchor.  Run like the wind and allow services like @Docusign to usher us into a world that should have existed 9 years ago.</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p><a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/wp-content/uploads/digsig.png"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-890" title="digsig" src="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/wp-content/uploads/digsig.png" alt="digsig" width="249" height="91" /></a></p>
<h2  class="related_post_title">Other articles of interest:</h2><ul class="related_post"><li>July 28, 2010 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2010/07/28/how-do-i-know-if-i-qualify-for-a-short-sale/" title="How Do I Know If I Qualify for a Short Sale?">How Do I Know If I Qualify for a Short Sale?</a></li><li>July 23, 2009 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2009/07/23/what-is-a-loan-status-report/" title="What is a Loan Status Report?">What is a Loan Status Report?</a></li><li>September 17, 2010 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2010/09/17/its-not-the-bank-who-pays-the-short-sale-fees/" title="It&#8217;s Not the Bank Who Pays the Short Sale Fees">It&#8217;s Not the Bank Who Pays the Short Sale Fees</a></li><li>October 2, 2008 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2008/10/02/leveraging-your-money-to-get-rich-part-iii/" title="Leveraging Your Money to Get Rich Part III">Leveraging Your Money to Get Rich Part III</a></li><li>June 15, 2011 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2011/06/15/paid-by-the-seller/" title="Paid By The Seller">Paid By The Seller</a></li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>No Clocking In, No Clocking Out</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2009 00:41:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jon Griffith</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>This post was inspired by Jacki Semerau&#8216;s recent article at http://knowyourplace.blogspot.com/.</p> <p>I was recently asked this question.  &#8220;Where do you find the time?  I have to be at work by 6:30AM every morning and I don&#8217;t get off until 6:00PM.&#8221;  It was in reference to the other set of activities that I engage in on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post was inspired by <span><span>Jacki Semerau</span></span>&#8216;s recent article at http://knowyourplace.blogspot.com/.</p>
<p>I was recently asked this question.  &#8220;Where do you find the time?  I have to be at work by 6:30AM every morning and I don&#8217;t get off until 6:00PM.&#8221;  It was in reference to the <em>other set of activities</em> that I engage in on a regular basis.  The activities that I always wished I could do when I was working in a cubicle in a prison cell called Corporate America.</p>
<p>If there&#8217;s one thing that certain, it&#8217;s that nothing is certain.  I don&#8217;t know who said that first, but it&#8217;s true.  Your job security is as uncertain as the day of my next closing, and in the world of real estate, I don&#8217;t get paid unless I sell a house.</p>
<p>So what is it about being in business for myself that is attractive enough to keep me from being stressed about the lack of regular income?</p>
<ul>
<li>When my body tells me to rest, I can.  Then I can be refreshed to continue to work in an environment of my choosing.</li>
<li>When I am productive, I can take time off.  If the afternoon is filled with success, I can simply take the next day off if I wish.  I have nobody to answer to.  If I have more than 4 major tasks to do in one day, then I&#8217;m doing too much.</li>
<li>I don&#8217;t waste time listening to my superiors ramble on about the company, policies, and procedures in regular meetings that go nowhere and accomplish nothing.  I can choose my meetings, classes, and gatherings whenever I want.</li>
<li>I can toss aside non-productive, non-income-producing activities, like wasting time doing things that make no sense that people tend to do just because that&#8217;s what&#8217;s &#8220;always been done.&#8221;</li>
<li>My value is inherent.  I don&#8217;t have a limit to what I can accomplish and I&#8217;m free to test the limits and breakthrough to new ground every day.  My success is a direct result of the time and energy I put into my work.  The last cubicle I sat in robbed me of 8 hours and my job only required about 1 hour of actual work.</li>
</ul>
<p>I just enjoy working for myself way too much to be oppressed by the corporate culture, which is leaning more towards a model of independence as it is anyway.  Punching a clock is the last thing I ever think about, because I now know the value of my time.</p>
<h2  class="related_post_title">Other articles of interest:</h2><ul class="related_post"><li>March 30, 2011 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2011/03/30/15-years-is-better-than-30/" title="15 Years Is Better Than 30">15 Years Is Better Than 30</a></li><li>June 10, 2009 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2009/06/10/tweetdeck-and-dual-monitors-equals-missing-tweetdeck/" title="TweetDeck and Dual Monitors Equals Missing TweetDeck">TweetDeck and Dual Monitors Equals Missing TweetDeck</a></li><li>July 28, 2010 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2010/07/28/what-is-the-red-tape/" title="What is the Red Tape?">What is the Red Tape?</a></li><li>November 18, 2008 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2008/11/18/going-out-of-business/" title="Going Out of Business!!!!">Going Out of Business!!!!</a></li><li>July 22, 2009 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2009/07/22/opening-escrow-before-the-bank-approves-the-sale/" title="Opening Escrow Before the Bank Approves the Sale">Opening Escrow Before the Bank Approves the Sale</a></li></ul>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>The Coolest Wedding Entrance EVER!</title>
		<link>http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2009/07/25/the-coolest-wedding-entrance-ever/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2009 07:08:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jon Griffith</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I couldn&#8217;t pass this one up. Some things in life just need to be done better, and this is an example of how.  I know, it has nothing to do with real estate.  Well, they DO need somewhere to live.</p> <p></p> Other articles of interest:November 8, 2008 -- <a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/2008/11/08/more-first-time-home-buyers-than-before/" title="More First-Time Home Buyers Than [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I couldn&#8217;t pass this one up. Some things in life just need to be done better, and this is an example of how.  I know, it has nothing to do with real estate.  Well, they DO need somewhere to live.</p>
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		<title>Get Off The Couch and Look Out Belay</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 07:30:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jon Griffith</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>All of Wednesday had me thinking about overcoming a fear that I never would have chosen to overcome.  When we&#8217;re faced with fear without choosing, and we stand up and push through it, we grow.  It&#8217;s even better when we choose to face something we&#8217;re afraid of, or even when we try something we never [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All of Wednesday had me thinking about overcoming a fear that I never would have chosen to overcome.  When we&#8217;re faced with fear without choosing, and we stand up and push through it, we grow.  It&#8217;s even better when we choose to face something we&#8217;re afraid of, or even when we try something we never knew we&#8217;d be afraid of.</p>
<p>A little voice inside my head today told me that I would be fine; that I wouldn&#8217;t get nervous, and that I would be able to perform just like I envisioned I would.</p>
<p>As much as I tried to fight the feelings of apprehension, they were still there, but I pushed through, and by the time the night had ended, I was scaling the very same wall I started on twice as fast as the first time.</p>
<div id="attachment_634" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/wp-content/uploads/IMG_0409.JPG"><img class="size-medium wp-image-634" style="margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;" title="IMG_0409" src="http://www.realscottsdaleliving.com/wp-content/uploads/IMG_0409-225x300.jpg" alt="This is me conquering a fear." width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">This is me conquering a fear.</p></div>
<p>I never considered indoor rock climbing to be something I would ever be interested in doing, but tonight, I learned how to do so at the suggestion of my closest friend from my high school days.  After 9 years we reconnected as a direct result of Facebook (for those of you who find no value in it&#8230;think again) and spent the entire night catching up and climbing in the gym.</p>
<p><strong>Belay</strong> (be-lay [bi-lay]) -verb: 1.  To secure a person by attaching to one end of a rope.  2. To keep your friend from falling to their death.</p>
<p>I learned both how to climb, and how to belay, which also means to stop.  One person climbs, one person stands anchored to the floor, and anchored to the rope that keeps your partner from falling.  While one climbs, the other takes up the slack and secures the rope after the climber&#8217;s forward progress.  It&#8217;s all about teamwork, and it&#8217;s great exercise.  The coolest part about it is that once you learn to trust the harness and your partner, it doesn&#8217;t matter how high the wall is.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s something about an activity that requires the work of two people and that involves putting your complete trust in that person to ensure you are secured.  I can&#8217;t quite describe it.  Perhaps the right word is Synergy.  There&#8217;s also something to be said for life-long friends who can pick up right where you left off.</p>
<p>So here&#8217;s to rock climbing, friends, fitness, and overcoming silly fears.</p>
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